When I Was Young

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Stories Of Our Mentors, Teachers, Neighbors

Who made a profound impact on you as a child? Who spoke truth and encouragement to you as a teen? What adult made you feel seen and showed you the love of Jesus?

As the start of school approaches, we’ve been thinking about the moments in our lives when an adult showed up for us in a way that had lasting impact. Sometimes a small action or a brief conversation can be used powerfully by God to guide and encourage the next generation. Read on!

MRS. KELLER, THE NEIGHBOR WHO LOVED US

by: Linda Leinius, School Partners Director

My mom, sister, and I experienced poverty for most of my childhood. We often struggled to pay bills, buy groceries, and went without a car for many years.

Fortunately, we were blessed to have a neighbor, Mrs. Keller, who never forgot about us. She not only invited us to church but made it part of her weekly routine to drive us there. She invited us on family outings and made Christmas Eve with her family a tradition. When my mom had to spend time in the hospital, she took in my sister and me, even making sure to celebrate my birthday during that time. She helped my mom find work, and when I showed up at her door at 2 a.m. needing help, she responded without hesitation.

Because of her, I have some joyful memories that would have otherwise been out of my reach: swimming at the local pool, learning to ice skate, sledding with friends, and joining the church youth group. What were likely simple, everyday moments for others were extraordinary gifts to me.

Looking back, I see that Mrs. Keller lived out her faith by truly loving her neighbors – us. I was so fortunate to be a recipient of that love.

I’m still in awe of her kindness, generosity, and unwavering support. She made me feel less alone and scared. She didn’t see me as “less than,” just as a child who wanted what every other kid wants: to feel safe, seen, and loved. I’m so grateful that she was willing to step into the mess and uncertainty of our lives to be a safe person who loved us well.

WHEN MY DREAM WAS SHATTERED

by Jeffery Wayne Francis, IMAGINE Move Out Team

After I graduated from Pontiac High School, I was filled with fire. I had a dream: to be a warrior. Not just for the title, but because deep down, I believed it was my purpose. That summer, I was getting ready to ship out for basic training, completely focused on becoming a United States Marine.

But not everyone supported that dream. My family constantly talked down to me for choosing anything other than the Air Force. It was discouraging, but thankfully, I had mentors at the high school from the IMAGINE Move Out Team. They stood by me when I needed it most. People like Tamika and Dorell Morrow, Phillis and Dave Bond, Ben Shat, and so many others—they believed in me. They encouraged me, helped me prepare, and even threw a send-off dinner in my honor. They made me feel like I could take on the world. Without their love and support, I don’t think I would have been mentally strong enough to go.

Then came Parris Island. I arrived full of hope, ready to prove myself. But just three weeks in, everything changed. I suffered five fractures in my right leg—three in my femur, two in my tibia. The pain was unbearable, but what hurt even more was hearing the words, “Your dream is over.” I was devastated. Everything I had worked for, everything I believed in—it all seemed to slip away in an instant.

I came back to Michigan on December 15th, 2024, feeling broken, lost, and empty. I had never felt so defeated in my life.

Honestly, I was in a dark place, a place I didn’t think I’d ever escape. But I made one call—to Ben—and that call changed everything.

Ben and the other mentors didn’t let me fall. They pulled me out of that darkness. They reminded me that I still had worth, that my story wasn’t over. A couple of weeks before Christmas, they brought me to Kensington Church. And that day, something shifted inside me. I realized that everything—every pain, every setback—was part of something bigger. I began to heal, not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually.

I found a job. I built a stable home. I stood back up, stronger than I had ever been. Today, I’m almost twenty years old. I have a roof over my head, a job I love, and a will that’s stronger than ever. My dream might have changed, but my purpose is still alive. And I’ll keep moving forward—because now I know, without a doubt, that I was never alone.

FOLLOWING IN HIS FOOTSTEPS

by Joe Vercellino, Founder of The Lion Heart Experience

When you are a student, one of the awesome things about music teachers is that you get to see them year after year. It’s not like your homeroom teacher that changes each year. My band teacher, Mr. Smokovitz (“Smoke”) has known me since sixth grade and worked with my classmates and me all through middle school and high school. There’s so much growth and development that happens from sixth grade through twelfth grade and he was part of it all.

His classroom was home for me. Before school, after school, lunch, I loved the band room.

All my best friends were in his music classes. In Smoke’s class, I felt proud for the first time becoming accomplished on my instrument and given the chance to lead my classmates. In Smoke’s class, I was shown how to morph a talent into a meal and make money from my passion. It’s why I went to school to be a music teacher. I’ll never forget him and I still check in with him to let him know how much his class meant to me.

About the Lion Heart Experience: Headed by award-winning educator, Joe Vercellino, The Lion Heart Experience is acclaimed for it’s quick connections with young people and fresh approach to mental-health and self-harm prevention by masterfully maneuvering between story, paint and original music

MY MENTOR IN A DIFFICULT SEASON

by Paige Hammers, Birmingham campus attender

When I decided that I was no longer going to pursue a college education, it completely rocked my life. There are not many people around you who are going through the same thing or who know how to guide you in your own struggles. Kelsea, my mentor, provided me with a safe space for questions and a glimpse of what the other side could look like. Not many people supported my decision to leave school, and at 18, making a decision that most people don’t agree with is tough. Kelsea made me see how bright my future could be.

She has always been there for me, whether it has been to ask a simple question or there for me to confide in when I need someone. Being a young Christian trying to figure out my life, she has been a role model to me on how to be a godly woman, striving to give glory to God.

Kelsea has shown me that being happy and succeeding can look different than what the world says.

Wondering how you can invest in the next generation of young people? Learn more about our School Partners’ Back To School supply drive and ongoing volunteer opportunities at kensingtonchurch.org/schoolpartners.

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Titus 1

Paul, a servant of God and an apostle of Jesus Christ to further the faith of God’s elect and their knowledge of the truth that leads to godliness– 2 in the hope of eternal life, which God, who does not lie, promised before the beginning of time, 3 and which now at his appointed season he has brought to light through the preaching entrusted to me by the command of God our Savior, 4 To Titus, my true son in our common faith: Grace and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Savior. 5 The reason I left you in Crete was that you might put in order what was left unfinished and appoint elders in every town, as I directed you. 6 An elder must be blameless, faithful to his wife, a man whose children believe and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient. 7 Since an overseer manages God’s household, he must be blameless– not overbearing, not quick-tempered, not given to drunkenness, not violent, not pursuing dishonest gain. 8 Rather, he must be hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined. 9 He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it. 10 For there are many rebellious people, full of meaningless talk and deception, especially those of the circumcision group. 11 They must be silenced, because they are disrupting whole households by teaching things they ought not to teach– and that for the sake of dishonest gain.

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Ephesians 4
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2 Timothy 2:2

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Take part in our one-day workshops for Loss of a Spouse on January 13 or our weekly workshops that start on January 20.

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Members of our Pastoral Care Team are trained by the nationally known Stephen Ministry program and are compassionate listeners who walk alongside others to provide skilled and distinctly Christian care in times of need. They can’t promise to have all the answers, but they can promise their focused support. To receive care from one of our Pastoral Care Team members, call us at 248.786.0600 and ask for a Campus Care Provider – they can get the process started.

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1 Timothy 3

Here is a trustworthy saying: Whoever aspires to be an overseer desires a noble task. 2 Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3 not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. 4 He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him, and he must do so in a manner worthy of full respect. 5 (If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?) 6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited and fall under the same judgment as the devil. 7 He must also have a good reputation with outsiders, so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil’s trap. 8 In the same way, deacons are to be worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine, and not pursuing dishonest gain. 9 They must keep hold of the deep truths of the faith with a clear conscience. 10 They must first be tested; and then if there is nothing against them, let them serve as deacons. 11 In the same way, the women are to be worthy of respect, not malicious talkers but temperate and trustworthy in everything. 12 A deacon must be faithful to his wife and must manage his children and his household well. 13 Those who have served well gain an excellent standing and great assurance in their faith in Christ Jesus. 14 Although I hope to come to you soon, I am writing you these instructions so that, 15 if I am delayed, you will know how people ought to conduct themselves in God’s household, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and foundation of the truth. 16 Beyond all question, the mystery from which true godliness springs is great: He appeared in the flesh, was vindicated by the Spirit, was seen by angels, was preached among the nations, was believed on in the world, was taken up in glory.

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Ephesians 4
1 Corinthians 12-13
1 Peter 5
2 Timothy 2:2

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The Marriage Course offers essential tools and practical ideas to help couples invest in their relationship and build a strong marriage. Strengthen your communication and gain a deeper understanding of your partner. The Marriage Course is based on Christian principles but designed for all couples with or without a church background.

Troy – Wednesdays starting September 17

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The Blended Family Workshop addresses the confusing roles and boundaries involved in blending families and identifies why parents so often struggle in blending their efforts. Find a community of people who are contemplating blending a family or are “in the trenches” building and growing their blended family!

Troy – Wednesdays @ 6:30pm // starting September 17

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We are offering a time for our congregation to gather after the 10am service for prayer in the Groves Auditorium, 20500 W 13 Mile Rd, Beverly Hills, MI 48025.

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We believe that unity at this time is more important than ever. Several churches in the area are partnering together to offer space for students to begin the process of healing.

We will have several grief and trauma specialists on site this Sunday evening at our Orion Campus (4640 S Lapeer Rd Lake Orion, MI 48359) from 5-6:30pm and will have a night of prayer, worship and an opportunity for students to process with each other.

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We will be offering a time for our congregation to gather after each service for a time of corporate prayer in the Greatroom. Prayer will be offered at 10:15 am and 12:15 pm. (25000 Hall Rd, Charter Twp of Clinton, MI 48036)

This Sunday at 3:30 pm as a community we want to gather, pray and mourn together. We are all looking for answers and wondering why tragedy happens but we can find hope and peace in Jesus. 

Troy Campus

Join us Sunday night, December 5th for a Community Prayer Vigil at Kensington Church at 6:00 pm. Invite friends, family, neighbors, and coworkers to come together for a time of hope and prayer. 

Following the Vigil, at 7:00 pm, there will be breakouts for students and for parents to process and be equipped in caring for themselves and those around in times of tragedy.

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What grows marriages? Focusing on the two of you and being in community!
The Marriage Course includes seven sessions, designed to help couples invest in their relationship and build a strong marriage. Some couples do the course to intentionally invest in their relationship, others are looking to address more specific challenges. Either way, the course offers essential tools and practical ideas to help you build a relationship that lasts a lifetime. The Marriage Course is based on Christian principles but designed for all couples with or without a church background.

Please email marriage@kensingtonchurch.org with any questions.

Financial Compass

Financial Compass is designed to help you discover the freedom found in wisely managing the resources God provides. To find out more, please email discipleship@kensingtonchurch.org.

Clinton Twp. | Monday, 6:30pm

Orion | Thursday, 6:30pm

Troy | Wednesday, 6:30pm

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Whether you are brand new to the Bible or have been reading it for decades, Bible Basics is a course that will help you understand the overall flow of the Bible. Over the course of several weeks, learn how the Bible came from the original writers to the English versions we have today. We’ll look at the big-picture story of the Bible and how all the individual books add to the whole. We’ll even learn a little about the history of the Jewish nation. But most of all, we’ll grow in our awe of the amazing author of this amazing book!

Please email discipleship@kensingtonchurch.org with any questions.

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Troy | Wednesday, 6:30pm

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Alpha

What is my purpose? What value does the Bible have in my life? How do I pray? How can I grow in confidence to share my faith? These are the big questions that are at the heart of what it means to have a relationship with God. Alpha is a space to explore life’s big questions, to say what you think and to hear other people’s points of view. Over ten-weeks you will explore and discover while listening to weekly topics, participating in table discussion, and developing community. Alpha courses meeting in-person gather around a meal.

You don’t have to come for the whole series—just check it out for the first session and see what you think. No pressure.

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Traverse City | Sundays, 6:30pm

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